Dean Holland calls it Failing Forward Fast
…and I’ve already asked to be the Poster Girl, if you will, for that very idea. I enrolled in the Starting with Marketing course not knowing really what I was in for, all I knew was that I was willing to take action. Dean, and other mentors I follow talk about that a lot. You can read up and study the success of others all day long, but if you take no action. You’ll stay exactly where you started….at zero.
But Dean, in his youthful, ethusiastic, and get-to-the-point style of honesty took the idea of ‘action’ a step further. He said during the first webinar that there will be failure. And, that how we handle said inevitable failure and whether we learn and move forward from it was completely up to us.
Then he said the best attitude that we can have when facing the fact of failure during this journey is to get it done and get it past us. He calls it Failing Forward Fast. For some reason, the idea I get in my head when he says that is one of me heading toward the end of a cliff at a dead run. So I’ll either stop and not go anywhere again, stop too late and slide off the end anway, or take a leap!
So failure is where I was at last week and I guess I didn’t have enough because I’m back at it this week! BRING IT!
I’m hoping that by the time I get this posted the problem will be resolved, but Team Hansberger has been plagued with technical issues with this blog, and more recently my husband Mark’s new blog. First the issue with permalinks. I struggled through it and got a fix. NOTE TO SELF: Always HOST ON LINUX! I didn’t know til it was too late.
After the permalinks solve, everything was working great on this and Mark’s new blog, one that thanks to the Starting With Marketing Academy I was able to install in as little as 20 minutes. He was really impressed with all I had been learning and doing since starting SWM and as a budding photographer wanted to get in on the game. No problem Honey! You are now a Bloggerographer!
I installed it and he played around a bit learning how to install plugins and add pictures. We had a blast working on it together, well into the night. When we turned in, all was well. When we woke up, not so much.
The page header had a bunch of funky text and we couldn’t get into the Wordpress Admin page. Long story short (and after 2 days of trying to work it out), I had to reinstall his blog (at the time I didn’t know any other way…after all I’ve been doing this wordpress thing for a grand total of 3 weeks!).
After the reinstall, we chalked it up to a bad plugin that he installed, and again cheerfully played around with our new toy and went to sleep that night Happy Bloggers. Til this morning when I’m at work and Mark emails and says….It’s BAA-ack! Not only on his blog but now MINE.
The best thing about Failing Forward Fast is that you learn A LOT that you never expected/wanted to learn in a very short amount of time. I have learned a lot.
When Mark’s blog broke, I closed my eyes and reinstalled. Since then I’ve figured out a few tricks and learned how to read what Wordpress was really trying to tell me in the error code. Apparently there is a thing called a Malicious IFrame code that gets into your blog through FTP (more on this later) and adds a type of redirect to the end of any of your wordpress files that have a title containing index (like index.php), or default (like default-filters.php). What this did to us is add that text I mentioned to the header of your blog, keeps you from getting into the admin page and takes the blog down.
Ouch. My head hurts from having to think and speak in such technical terms.
So Fail Forward Fast to this moment in time where I am operating on a TON of faith right now. I’m writing this blog post BEFORE the problem is actually fixed in hopes that it will be by tonight and I’ll post this to hopefully help you not be afraid of failing as long as you get it out of the way and moving quickly.
The Fix: The wordpress boards are the BEST. A lot of people have experienced this problem and were kind enough to note their experiences of how they were able to resolve it.
When I mentioned above that this problem is an FTP hack, it means that the bot or whatever it is got in through FTP. Unfortunately my windows-based webhost is a little loosey goosey on passwords, they default your hosting and ftp passwords to be the SAME. So your first step is to get them to change that. I’m in that battle now.
Next, clean the iframe code out of your files AND make sure your webhost does the same. Yes, they may buck you on this. Keep trying or switch. Third, install a Wordpress plugin called Antivirus (imagine that) that will go through and find files that still have the malicious iframe code and notify you so that you can fix them. It also does some other really great things.
As a recap, here’s my plan:
1. CHANGE YOUR FTP password
2. Make your webhost step up the security, don’t let them say it’s just a wordpress problem.
3. clean your files (scanning any pc that connects via FTP to your host is a MUST also)
4. install the Antivirus plugin.
5. Post about your VICTORY and as always, JUST KEEP SWIMMING!
Even if you don’t have any problems, I highly recommend installing that plugin!
Below are the links that helped me the most. My sincere hope is that I have helped you, done enough failing forward for everyone in my Starting With Marketing group and that no one else has to be faced with such setbacks. After all we’re busy taking on the world! But if you are, that’s ok, just do it quickly and get back on track.
http://wordpress.org/support/topic/280878
http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/antivirus/
Let me know your thoughts,
Tammie










August 15th, 2009 at 2:12 pm
Hi Tammie
Your blog is really coming on.
Often heard in seminars that it better to fail than do nothing at all. More failures means you are on the road to success (doesn’t always fell like it though.
Keep up the good work.
Ian
August 15th, 2009 at 2:37 pm
Hey Ian, thanks for the reply, it’s been one of those weeks, but I’m not giving up! Can’t wait to get over to your blog and catch up on the 5-point series you’re offering.
Talk again soon
Tammie
August 15th, 2009 at 6:53 pm
Tammie,
There is one very important lesson when it comes to accomplishing anything and that is failure is just part of the path to greatness. Without failure, we cannot experience growth.
Teddy
August 16th, 2009 at 7:33 am
You really are the ‘the little engine that could’. I’m so proud of you. Keep up the great work.
August 16th, 2009 at 8:42 am
Thank you honey. I know I keep saying it, but your support and belief in me keeps me going.
August 16th, 2009 at 10:14 pm
Interesting and informative post, but in the future I would recommend you to create headlines within your post. By doing so it’s easier for me as a reader to get through the test.
August 17th, 2009 at 4:23 pm
Hi Tammie
Failure is instructive. The person who really thinks learns quite as much from his failures as from his successes.
Avis
August 17th, 2009 at 4:55 pm
Hey Tammie,
Well your too much of a tech wiz for me to comment on the wordpress info, but congratulations are figuring it out. Frank Kern says the magic bullet is “Never Give Up”.
There really are so many possibilities of what to do for success on-line that no one really needs to give up.
My advise is to take small steps, but also take big steps. Notice the people that write a good e-book like Dean Holland and Alex Jeffreys really get things going. Now that’s kind of a big step, but when we step out of the ordinary, extraordinary things happen on-line.
Great to see you blogging and moving. To failure I say SO WHAT! lets just pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and get it going again.
Rob
August 17th, 2009 at 10:16 pm
Stefan,
Thanks for taking the time to post on my new blog. I checked out your blog and as I had hoped, found a great example of your very kind suggestion. I will be sure to implement that. In addition I was so glad to find some really powerful info on your site, so thank you for what you do!
August 17th, 2009 at 10:18 pm
HI Avis, agreed. You just don’t realize it until you have the time to reflect on how much you really did learn. Failure can be painful and cathartic at the same time. Thank you for taking the time to come by and comment.
Talk Soon,
Tammie
August 17th, 2009 at 10:21 pm
Hi again Rob,
Yeah, I thought I was pretty rusty on the tech side, I’ve been out of it for awhile, but I really had to do some dusting off!
I appreciate your thoughts on taking small steps and BIG steps. That is a great way to put it and thanks!
We’ll talk again soon!
Tammie
August 18th, 2009 at 1:05 pm
Hey Tammie
How’re you doing..??
I was reading what you had said about your hosting problem
and wondered if you had got it sorted out yet.
Let me know as I may be able to help…!!
Malcolm.t.
August 18th, 2009 at 9:05 pm
HI There Malcolm!
Thanks for dropping by, yes the hosting has been a nightmare..partially due to my bad decision of choosing a windows host (who knew? Well I do NOW ha!) We have switched to Bluehost…they are awesome!
Hope you are well, my friend!
Tammie
August 19th, 2009 at 10:51 am
Hi Tammie,
I like your vision of the cliff and taking a leap. I heard somewhere that about 90% of people that buy a book never get past the first chapter. They desire the book, and they get it, but then once that have the book they are comfortable. That’s how most people are, but not you. Keep taking that leap in everything that you do. Keep striving and learning. You can be great… just keep swimming, just keep swimming.
All the best,
Ed
August 19th, 2009 at 6:00 pm
HI Ed!
Thanks for the thoughtful comment, I love the book analogy. I admit I have done that very same thing, but NOT this time! Great to hear from you again.
Tammie
August 26th, 2009 at 10:06 am
Thank you Tammie. I’m glad you found my site useful. I would recommend you to add threaded comments, since it’s much easier to answer comments then. Keep up the good work.
August 31st, 2009 at 10:43 pm
Yes Tammie we are all having our bouts of failing forward with the tech issues especially LOL. But yes the error log is a great way to help you out w/ difficulties as I’ve found out the hard way too….
Glad you’re failing forward friend.
-Cuzin Tim
September 4th, 2009 at 10:42 pm
Tammie,
I some how stumbled upon your website. But I think I was brought to it for a reason. I know how you feel about not wanting to work. I have two boys and only wk one day a week. Thank God. But, my husband and I are on a new network marketing adventure I think you and your husband would be excited about. It is just starting up and we would love to share and tell you all about it. If your interested contact me on facebook.
Jennifer Cardenas, TX